Weekly Photo Challenge: Depth and Compassion

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Compassion, in which all ethics must take root, can only attain its full breadth and depth if it embraces all living creatures and does not limit itself to mankind.
Albert Schweitzer

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As John, Ryan and I work through the challenges and rewards of living with our newest family member Finn, compassion is always on our minds.  Bringing a rescue dog into the family has been an eye-opening experience but we are fully committed to providing him with the best home and second chance at life he could imagine and in return the loyal, loving dog he was meant to be is slowly starting to emerge.

We don’t have any information about Finn’s early years but we do know he was abandoned in California and rescued from doggie death row by a group dedicated to transporting dogs to no-kill shelters around the Pacific Northwest.  When we found him at his second shelter he was under weight, anxious and full of fear, lashing out at any new person or animal that approached him.  Something clicked though when we came to visit and he surprised his foster mom by cautiously approaching us, then sat quietly on the grass waiting for a carefully placed treat.  When he happily followed Ryan for a short walk around the yard we knew he was the dog for us but daily life is much different from an hour in a sunny yard and these first three months together have been anything but quiet or easy.  They’ve been full of learning and compassion but very little quiet.

Finn reacts to most people, animals and noises with an overwhelming urge to keep everything away.  His bark, teeth and claws are on full display and it’s all he can do to keep breathing while he fights to stay safe.  We’ve enlisted the help of a wonderful dog trainer with a background in rescue animals to help us find our path through this fear and we’re slowly building some shared trust while comforting Finn with the knowledge that he doesn’t have to fight everything.  We will take care of the big scarey stuff.  With a steady diet of good food, lots of sleep, regular exercise, consistent care and engaging activities his health is improving, anxiety levels are dropping and he’s up to a normal weight so I can see that our positive reinforcement approach is starting to show real results.

When we first talked about adopting a pet we knew we wanted a dog that would be big enough to join us for hikes through the forest and fun afternoons at the beach while still being small enough to fit comfortably in our home.  While Finn meets both of these conditions he still isn’t ready to safely spend the day hiking.  As a compromise I’m working my way through the overgrown side of our backyard, carving out trails where he can hunt, dig and explore to his heart’s content.  Our yard isn’t fully fenced so we are careful to provide appropriate supervision but he’s already spent hours next to me on a long lead supervising the work then jumping and diving through ferns looking for squirrels.  These two photos are from last weekend’s work session and if I have time before the Superbowl starts today we’ll keep digging into the brush to extend his range a little farther into the yard.  We know there are months of work and conditioning ahead before we can attempt an all day outing but my goal is for a beautiful summer hike with a happy dog by our side.  I’ll keep you posted!

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62 responses to “Weekly Photo Challenge: Depth and Compassion”

  1. Carrie Rubin Avatar

    How wonderful of you to adopt a dog with such challenging issues. It’s heart-warming to see how he’s coming around, and even though you have a ways to go, looking back on what you’ve accomplished should fill you with pride and joy. Here’s hoping day long hikes with him are not far off in your future. 🙂

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    1. NW Frame of Mind Avatar

      Thanks for your encouraging words, Carrie. 🙂 We had a nice walk together this morning with minimal fearful outbursts so I’ll count it as a win and another step towards our goal. 🙂

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  2. Andra Watkins Avatar

    Lisa, you and Finn are inspirations. He’s lucky to have you as his family. I know he’ll get to the long hiking, because he has to feel the love you’re giving him.

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    1. NW Frame of Mind Avatar

      Thank you, Andra. We’ve learned so much from this experience and watching Finn relax into a big belly rub after an afternoon in the yard is all the reward we need to get us through the more challenging moments.

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  3. andy1076 Avatar

    Looks like you are sharing with him a world he never knew existed and he’s starting to accept it now, that’s awesome 🙂

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    1. NW Frame of Mind Avatar

      You’re right, Andy. Watching him experience things like wet grass and rain have been entertaining for both of us. There are so many elements he’s never experienced in his short life including how to relax like a “normal” dog so every little thing that shows us he’s letting down his guard is big. 🙂

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      1. andy1076 Avatar

        For sure..! soon you’ll see a whole different side of him, like literally when you least expect it 😀

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      2. NW Frame of Mind Avatar

        Surprising reactions are definitely in our future. He keeps us on our toes. 🙂

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      3. andy1076 Avatar

        That’s the best part about these sweet companions 😀

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  4. narble Avatar

    As you’re well aware, dogs are not little people in fur coats. They are wonderful companions. I’m confident that Finn will find his way and begin to trust aspects of life beyond his immediate family. Good luck and good times.

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    1. NW Frame of Mind Avatar

      Thanks for the good wishes, Jim. Finn is very reserved with his trust but we’ve been able to successfully introduce him to some family members and over time he’s come to accept them as extended pack so I think we are on the right track. I’m smiling at your comment “dogs are not little people in fur coats.” So true. 🙂

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  5. D'Arcy H Avatar

    Finn is so lucky to have a patient and loving family likes yours! Our Duke is also a rescue who has fear aggression problems with other dogs when he is leashed. It really hasn’t improved much in 5 years, but otherwise he’s so sweet and loving! Sounds like you have a good trainer … I tried one who told us Duke would eat babies and we should send him back!!! Of course, we knew better!

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    1. NW Frame of Mind Avatar

      I can’t believe your trainer said that!!! It’s so great to hear from other rescue families and Duke sounds like a wonderful dog. 🙂 We’ll start working with Finn and other dogs off leash in careful situations soon. Wish us luck!

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  6. suej Avatar

    Oh my goodness…some challenge! Well done you. One of my friends has a dog called Finn, but he’s a little Border Terrier.

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    1. NW Frame of Mind Avatar

      You’re right, Sue this is really a challenge but one that comes with lots of love in return. We’ve met a few Finns and so far they all have spunky, feisty personalities. It sounds like your friends Finn fits right in. 🙂

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      1. suej Avatar

        😀

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  7. D'Arcy H Avatar

    PS, I really love that Einstein quote!

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  8. D'Arcy H Avatar

    Oops, Schweitzer!! 🙂

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    1. NW Frame of Mind Avatar

      I’m glad you like the quote D’Arcy. Finding it gave me a direction for this post. 🙂

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  9. Tina Schell Avatar

    Hes absolutely beautiful. Youre doing a great thing. Good for you!

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    1. NW Frame of Mind Avatar

      Thank you kindly, Tina!

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  10. theinbetweendream Avatar

    I can relate to this. I recently wrote a post about my dog Asher for the weekly photo challenge – new. In the beginning, I had the some of the same issues as you, but 5 years later he’s calmed down a lot. I always say that if Ash were human-he’d be a criminal. I’m a mother. I love my baby boy-bad behavior and all! I commend you for taking him in and making him part of your family. Good on you!!

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    1. NW Frame of Mind Avatar

      Thanks so much for your encouragement and I’m thrilled to hear from other rescue families. 🙂 I understand the love, bad boy behavior and all and it’s nice to hear they settle in eventually. 🙂 I’ll click over to take a look at your post now.

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  11. apuginthekitchen Avatar

    You have saved a life and given Finn a second chance in life. You are patient and loving and that is exactly what he needs. He is a very handsome boy and I know he will be a loyal and loving member of your family, What a great story, welcome to Finn.

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    1. NW Frame of Mind Avatar

      Thanks for the nice welcome message. 🙂 I can’t wait to see how far he’s come by the end of the summer but he’s already given us so much. 🙂

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  12. NancyTex Avatar

    You are all angels for choosing a rescue, with all the challenges that entails. Huge respect!

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    1. NW Frame of Mind Avatar

      Thanks, Nancy! It isn’t easy, especially when people stop to stare at the loud dog or worse, run away in fear when we’re walking and he starts to bark but we’ll get there. I just want him to be able to enjoy normal dog friendly activities and love his life. 🙂

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      1. NancyTex Avatar

        What you’re doing is amazing. Finn is very lucky to have you.

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  13. Mother Hen Avatar

    This is a heart tugger.. I wish for you all the best…

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    1. NW Frame of Mind Avatar

      Thanks for your kind wishes, we’ll take all the good will we can get as we keep working through our list of behaviors to redirect and calm. I’ll be sure to share periodic update posts so everyone can watch his growth. 🙂

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      1. Mother Hen Avatar

        I am sure there will be testing of patience, but there will growth and blessing to. A blogger/friend from Canada just lost a cat to cancer. She has been caring for stray and abandoned cats for years.. If you look up Arlene Martin at As a Crow Flies your heart will be moved by her dedication..

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      2. NW Frame of Mind Avatar

        I’ll take a look, thanks for the recommendation…

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  14. sunsetdragon Avatar
    sunsetdragon

    Finn is a beauty and blessings to you all for adopting this fella, and in the long run he will be the best.

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    1. NW Frame of Mind Avatar

      Thank you, Ruth. He’s a keeper and should only grow happier with time and care.

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  15. Mabel Kwong Avatar

    That is so nice of you to adopt a dog. I hope all goes well. I’m sure it will and Finn will feel settled in no time since it sounds like you’re taking good care of him. Lovely photos, and that looks like a lovely trail for a walk 🙂

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    1. NW Frame of Mind Avatar

      Thanks so much, Mabel. That corner of our yard looks much nicer now that we decided to treat it as a trail area instead of trying to clear the whole thing. 🙂

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      1. Mabel Kwong Avatar

        Your yard is certainly very lovely. I’m sure Finn will have a lot of fun there rolling around in the summer 🙂

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  16. Patrick Avatar
    Patrick

    Having had two rescue dogs, with time and lots of love, Finn will become very loyal to you family, Lisa. My first rescue dog, Shelly, had been abused and was almost not put up for adoption due to her past. After about a year she was a completely different dog. Shelly is gone and now I have Maggie. Unfortunately Maggie has been attacked several times by larger dogs and has developed a fear which comes out as aggression/protective response very much like Finn. I’m hoping with time Maggie will feel comfortable around other dogs again. Patrick

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    1. NW Frame of Mind Avatar

      Patrick, I’m so sorry to hear Maggie has been attacked by larger dogs. It’s comforting to know Shelly had such a great turn around after 1 year and we hope Finn experiences the same positive change. My fingers are crossed for Maggie, we now know how hard it is to work through their fearful aggression/protection response. But it can be done.

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  17. Andrew Seal Avatar

    Finn is so very lucky. Your post is wonderfully heartwarming and full of humanity. Warmest good wishes 🙂

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    1. NW Frame of Mind Avatar

      Thank you, Andrew. Warm wishes are always wonderful to receive and Finn and I appreciate your visit. 🙂

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  18. Mountainstroh (Tony) Avatar

    Good for you! He will come around with enough puppy love

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    1. NW Frame of Mind Avatar

      Thanks, Tony! He’s come a long way and is a tough pup, I can’t wait to see what’s next. 🙂

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      1. Mountainstroh (Tony) Avatar

        Well he has great puppy parents all will be good!

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  19. Ruchi Avatar

    Kudos to you and Welcome to dear Finn. I am sure he will have a great time with you.

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    1. NW Frame of Mind Avatar

      He’s relaxing by my feet right now, Ruchi. 🙂

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  20. Kiki Avatar

    What a great take on this challenge subject! Lovely dog as well as lucky dog to have found a home with you!

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    1. NW Frame of Mind Avatar

      Thank you, Kiki! I hope he feels lucky, it’s been great to watch him slowly start to accept that his life has made a huge turn for the better. 🙂

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  21. bebs1 Avatar

    Am sure he’ll turn around soon enough that you will enjoy Spring and Summers with Finn. What a beautiful dog and truly it takes compassion to adopt a pet with issues as there are certainly a lot of pets that needs a home.

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    1. NW Frame of Mind Avatar

      Thank you for your visit and insightful comments, Bebs. With a such a compassionate community around him Finn should have everything he needs to live a happy life with us. 🙂

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  22. Angeline M Avatar

    You are a wonderful family to take this doggie into your lives. I know there have to be special blessings going out to you all.

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    1. NW Frame of Mind Avatar

      Thank you, Angeline. 🙂 He has been a handful but when he comes out of his shell to play ball and hop around like a puppy we can’t help but laugh and appreciate his strong will to survive and still have fun. 🙂

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  23. LaVagabonde Avatar
    LaVagabonde

    Rescue dogs always seem to know the people who are right for them. He is beautiful.

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    1. NW Frame of Mind Avatar

      Finn certainly seemed to know we were his chosen family, really he picked us. Thanks for your nice comments.

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  24. Otto von Münchow Avatar

    So wonderful for Finn to have you adopting him – even if he may be a challenge at times. He looks like a lovely dog.

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    1. NW Frame of Mind Avatar

      Thanks for sharing your comments today, Otto. 🙂 Finn has a sweet and loyal heart which certainly helps us through the challenging days.

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  25. Lola Jane Avatar
    Lola Jane

    How lucky for all that Finn is in your care —- our black lab mix Jake was from the shelter and turned out to be the most loyal companion for our family.

    Agree with comments here, he is beautiful. I’m following your blog to keep up with your new adventures with him (and of course, to see your beautiful photography 🙂 too!)

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    1. NW Frame of Mind Avatar

      Welcome, Lola Jane! One of the best things about this post has been the chance to hear other rescue stories and I’m so happy to hear your Jake is such a wonderful companion. 🙂 Look for Finn to make another appearance here on Sunday…

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  26. vastlycurious.com Avatar
    vastlycurious.com

    It’s wonderful that you did this! I am so jealous. He is a beautiful boy Lisa!

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    1. NW Frame of Mind Avatar

      Thanks so much, Kathryn! It’s been a great experience and I can’t wait to see how he grows into his true personality over the next year.

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  27. themofman Avatar

    Bitter sweet. Hang in there, Finn!

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    1. NW Frame of Mind Avatar

      Thanks, Allan I’ll share your encouragement with Finn!

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